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  • May. 23, 2009 at 10:07pm

    Take some time this weekend to remember. 

    War is a very real thing. 

    If you feel free or safe tonight, know that it has come and continues to come at the highest cost. 

    Soldiers are people - they are us - and many have given their lives for our freedom and security. 

    This is not about politics. This is about people. 

    The ones that live, can we even imagine what they've experienced, what they've seen and felt and lost?

    What does it mean to "go back to normal"?

    How do they recover?  How do they "let it go"? 

    This weekend, let's do a better than "i don't have to go to work on Monday".  Let's look beyond "Oh cool, a three-day weekend."

    Take some time to consider the soldiers.  The people.  Sons and daughters, brothers and husbands. Someone's father. Someone's uncle. Cousin. Neighbor. Friend. 

    They are the fallen and the fighting and the ones forever trying to make sense of "home". They are missed by millions.

    Have a conversation. Say "thank you". Ask a question.

    The day is meant for remembering. Not just the deaths but the lives and the living.  

    We live in a day with more distractions than ever before. More excuses. We make an enormous mistake if we fail to honor these people, if we fail to pause to consider and be grateful and be kind. 

    Take some time this weekend to remember. Remember someone you've lost. Remember all the different soldiers. Remember the things that matter and the things that are true.

    Peace to you.
    jamie

    Posted in General by jamie tworkowski

Comments (31)

Jamie, you never fail on what to say! Thank you, I will remember that. In honor to the fallen ones.

1 | Left by Taryn | May. 23, 2009 at 11:08pm


May God Bless all those who keep us safe by fighting this war, and let them know that They are amazing!

To all those who have fought and returned I thank you and hope you are well!

To those who didn't return may God keep you safe,and i thank you!

2 | Left by Brittany | May. 24, 2009 at 8:00am


jamie, you really make a difference in how i think -reminding me of very important things. i love your blogs and wish you would write more. the things you say should be obviouse but we forget to think about them sometimes so thank you again!

3 | Left by Leanne | May. 24, 2009 at 8:56am


Thank you, Jamie, for bringing up this point. This day is so much more than just a day off of work or school - it's a lot bigger and more important that we remember those who serve their country, and that we keep them in our hearts. Thank you :)

4 | Left by Carisa | May. 24, 2009 at 9:36am


jamie, u r a GENIUS!!!!! u always kno wat 2 say. this is my fave organization and i canNOT wait 2 b an intern when im older!!!

5 | Left by Drew | May. 24, 2009 at 10:35am


My dad fought for his country. Now he's numb, hollow, empty. He says the alcohol helps. I just don't think he knows how to feel anymore.

6 | Left by ashley | May. 24, 2009 at 2:09pm


This is nice. My boyfriend was going to be in the Marines, and a close friend of mine, she is leaving in a month for the Marines.

7 | Left by Chrissy | May. 24, 2009 at 4:01pm


God bless all the soilders that fight for our country.
May God be with them when they are away from their family and friends fighting for our country.
Help them when they come home for many of them feel a sense of loneliness or loss.
Without Our soilders we wouldnt be where we are today.
Thank you for everything you guys do.
--with love

8 | Left by lauren | May. 24, 2009 at 4:30pm


I love this organization, and can not wait to apply for an intern position when I am of age. This really does show people love is out there and sometimes we may have to fight for it, but what would be the point of living in the first place if we didn't have to put up a fight. We all need to know that we are not alone. A smart friend of mine once said, "1 is better than 0" and it's true. If the one friend you have is God, look up and have hope in your heart. Thank you, Jamie. Bless your soul and all who have the chance to listen to your words. Amen.

9 | Left by Blake | May. 24, 2009 at 7:04pm


thank you so much. i never really considered this.
but now that i have a friend whos dad is going to Iraq and i see her and her mothers pain.. i can understand. i used to take things for granted.. now i see the cost.

10 | Left by Maraia | May. 25, 2009 at 2:39am


i made a video of indiana soldiers and shared it with everyone today at the party... i felt very proud that i took so many hours to make something that touched people so much!!! so thank you to allthat have served...

11 | Left by tabby | May. 25, 2009 at 7:01pm


wow i really did not think of this the entire weekend but i guess its not too late.i never really thought of it like that but from now on i will thanks alot and im sure the soldiers thank you too for the awareness

12 | Left by sofija ♥ | May. 25, 2009 at 9:32pm


How could I forget those who gave their lives for my peace and safety?
Steve is currently in afganastan.
Chad is home from Iraq.
Keith is home from Iraq.
Robert is home from Iraq.

All these people are my loved ones. Everytime I see them or another soldier...I see a hero. =]
Thanks Jamie! <3

13 | Left by Katie | May. 26, 2009 at 6:43am


Thank you, Jamie, for those words...a reminder that we so often take for granted all that we really are blessed with. Its at times like these that I am most proud to be an American, and so very thankful that I can go to sleep at night safe. God bless the all the troops and God bless America.

And God bless you Jamie:) You may not be in Iraq, but you too are fighting for our lives through TWLOHA, and that is more than enough to call you a true hero. Thank you. You truly have no idea how much you do, not only for me, but for millions out there. <3

14 | Left by Michelle | May. 26, 2009 at 12:59pm


Michelle said, "And God bless you Jamie:) You may not be in Iraq, but you too are fighting for our lives through TWLOHA, and that is more than enough to call you a true hero. Thank you. You truly have no idea how much you do, not only for me, but for millions out there. <3 "

SO TRUE!

15 | Left by Katie | May. 26, 2009 at 7:14pm


Jamie that was amazing and so true my dad is in the Air Force and it's awesome to see that there are people out there who actually appreciate the armed forces because sometimes it's almost like those people don't exist. Wow thank you so much for those inspiring words

16 | Left by Bandon | May. 26, 2009 at 8:54pm


Jamie, you're so amazing. You always know the right thing to say in times of difficulty for so many.

I have many relatives who have served this country. Granet I don't really agree with it, but they do what they feel is right so I respect them for it.

Thank you Jamie for reminding us what's important about the other day.

17 | Left by alysin | May. 27, 2009 at 6:18am


I currently have a cousin stationed in North Carolina, and I thank him every day in my prayers. Memorial Day has always been rough for me since my cousin was killed over in Iraq. I know everyone leaves for a reason, but I have yet come across his. But what is done is done, correct, and there is no changing it what-so-ever.

18 | Left by Miranda | May. 27, 2009 at 7:15am


Thank you, Jamie. Memorial Day is a very important holiday for America. Most people don't even take the time to think about the war. It is real. There is a real sacrifice. People are lost, and missed.

19 | Left by Laura | May. 27, 2009 at 10:36am


You always speak the truth jamie and its no different this time. You've got a great way of expressing your feelings poeticly. I will remember the fallen soldiers and the fighting ones. They've gone trough so much and they deserve at least our thoughts and prayers. Memorial Day is so important and most people don't recognize it in that way. Most people will just say, "Oh, it's a three day weekend!" like you mentioned, but it's so much more than that.
<3 always,
Annalisa

20 | Left by Annalisa | May. 27, 2009 at 2:34pm


why can't there be more people like you in the world?
people like you who actually recocgnize these things and their importance.

21 | Left by Adam T. | May. 30, 2009 at 7:18pm


Hey found your site through Post Secret, someones secret was posted on one of your cards. Anyhow you are doing a great thing. I am recovered from many years of SI and depression. I found myself and then discovered what I like to do, now there is not enough time in the day for me to do all that I want to do. Keep the hope alive for those who can't for themselves, they will grab it back someday.

22 | Left by Ash Lee | May. 31, 2009 at 4:59am


hi.I am Chinese.I read your story from books. well,i must say that my English is terrible.And I could hardly understand what you said about the article.
The people are always strong.I think.

23 | Left by Han | May. 31, 2009 at 6:24am


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<<3
Giselle

24 | Left by Giselle | May. 31, 2009 at 11:34am


Thanks so much for posting this....these men and women come back, never to return to the lives they once knew. They can come back, hug their families, and completely not connect. Sure, they might make it back alive, but are they truly alive when nothing seems real anymore? When they thoughts and memories are trapped back in the war zones? I think these men and women deserve so much more love, admiration, and respect than we could ever even express. So kudos to you for making a point of bringing this to the forefront. God Bless

25 | Left by Jamie | May. 31, 2009 at 8:15pm


Jamie, thank you. This means, beyond words, so much. My husband has been deployed to Afghanistan since September of last year, and he's developed PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). He's coming home soon, and I'm terrified of what this deployment has done to him. But I know that I can help him through it, because of the strength TWLOHA's vision has given me. He's a veteran now, after being in a war zone for 180 days. I'm so, so proud of him. I could never in my life imagine anything better than being an Army wife. I thank God every day for the heart-breaking, courageous, ultimate sacrifice my husband is making just to give his family a good life. And all the other incredible young men and women who fight along side him. Not to mention every single person who's protected this country since it's birth.

I honestly cannot tell you how much this blog means to me. It gives me hope that there are more people for our soldiers than against them. I'm going to send this to my husband tonight, so he can see how much his sacrifice is appreciated.

Thank you, again.

26 | Left by Sam. | Jun. 1, 2009 at 1:42am


I just now read this and jsut want to say thank you. Im a girlfriend of a Soldier who will be returning back home from Iraq in a little more then a week and this really touched my heart. In a country that has taken for granted our freedom its so refreshing to see someone who has made such a huge difference stand up and say something about honoring and appriciating our service men...They are the true vision of a Hero.

God Bless

27 | Left by Rachel | Jun. 1, 2009 at 2:57pm


I just came on this website the other day to see what this is all about.Someone told me I should read the vision.And I just wanted to say wow.Even in such a short story about Renee it seems to say so much.Thank you for bringing this to my mind and I will try as much as I can to help those who struggle with depression.
Thank you.

28 | Left by ariel | Jun. 1, 2009 at 4:26pm


This is beautiful, and close to the heart. Many friends, close and not so close, have joined all branches of the military. It is nice to know everyone on here remembers how important their job is.
Thank you, God bless

29 | Left by jenni | Jun. 3, 2009 at 4:00pm


thank you so much for posting this.
i think people sometimes take the freedom they have for granted. we need to be more grateful for all that our soldiers have done for us. my cousin is leaving for Iraq next month, and i'm gonna miss her like heck. i pray that she'll return home safely :) please everyone pray for our soldiers and their families.

30 | Left by Nicole | Jun. 8, 2009 at 2:41pm


this website is amazing.it helped me and my best friend through many thngs.Im buying that book and im going to read it.mhm(:

31 | Left by sarah/bree | Jul. 19, 2009 at 10:42am

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