Blog

  • Dec. 9, 2010 at 10:52am

    Through grade school, college, and I’m learning even in life as an adult, it’s not always easy to find where you fit. We are all searching for a place to belong, a community of people who will accept us with our flaws and quirks. We have the privilege of living in an age where geography does not limit our search, and the Internet provides countless avenues of possibility.

    This is something Carrie Goldman has been learning more and more over the last few weeks. Her seven year old daughter Katie is a huge Star Wars fan and proudly carried her Star Wars water bottle to school everyday until some of the other kids at school told her that Star Wars was only for boys, she told her mom in tears. Carrie shared Katie’s story on her blog and also her own thoughts about how these small suggestions from friends on the playground may be the seeds of bullying later in middle school and high school. She did not expect the kind of response she received. Katie has been showered with encouraging notes from all over the world to be herself and to embrace her love Star Wars. She’s even had people send her gifts to show their support. You can read more about Katie’s story here.

    Tomorrow, December 10, Katie’s school will host a “Proud To Be Me Day” where they will wear something to represent what they are interested in, an opportunity to fly their nerd flag, whatever that flag may be. A fan of Katie’s story also created a Facebook event for people to wear Star Wars gear on the same day to support Katie, and Katie’s family requested that the participants donate Star Wars toys to charities for the holidays.

    I feel the same way about books and reading as Katie feels about Star Wars and have been that way ever since I was a tiny girl. I realized it when I couldn’t stop reading the Boxcar Children series in second grade. Whenever I’m taking a break at work or out to lunch, anyone in the office will tell you that I could go on forever about the book I’m currently reading, the number I’m at for the year, or my favorite authors (John Green, FTW).

    In my adventures back in time and in the future and to other worlds that sometimes look like ours but with special secrets, I eventually found The Boy Who Lived with his lightning bolt scar and tiny cupboard under the stairs. J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter series has woven itself through our generation. Over the past few years, the hardcore fans connected with each other not only in person at school or work or at the bookstore, but also online at MuggleNet.com and The-Leaky-Cauldron.org.

    In 2005, two HP fans created The Harry Potter Alliance (HPA) in an effort to lead the way in creating social change in our world, to take a message from a story and its heroes that impacted them so much and live it out. As a 501c3 nonprofit, The HPA’s mission statement says the organization “takes an outside-of-the-box approach to civic engagement by using parallels from the Harry Potter books to educate and mobilize young people across the world toward issues of literacy, equality, and human rights.”

    They currently have a project right now called “Dementor Horcrux,” where participants use their creativity to create a hopeful message in the form of writing, photos, drawings, paintings, videos, and songs to inspire people who are struggling with depression, anxiety, and body image issues, people who may not know what hope looks like anymore. We want to say that we believe in the power of voices coming together to sing a chorus of hope, that we are thankful for people willing to be a part of that chorus. You can read more about the “Dementor Horcrux” project here.

    Fandoms are about bringing people together, about connecting over a shared treasure. So maybe you don’t understand all the jokes or all the metaphors or the weird words someone made up for a story, but I hope you can appreciate the community that is built through loving the same thing. The HPA is doing just that—using community to fight against loneliness and pain and the lies we hear from the outside and the inside everyday. It may not be your thing, but it is someone’s thing just like Star Wars is Katie’s thing, and I hope you’ll support them in the ways they are working to spread hope and maybe even share some of your own. Most of all, I hope you find a place where you feel like you fit, a tribe to call your own, and an opportunity to connect with other people who love the same things you do. The search, I promise you, is worth it.

    whitney

    Posted in General by Chris Youngblood

Comments (5)

I love how my favorite book series and my favorite organization came together in this blog. Both of these things have helped me get through the dark places in my life. I am eternally in debt to both JK Rowling and the TWLOHA staff, and my bestfriend, for bringing me back to the light. Thank you

1 | Left by karrigan. | Dec. 9, 2010 at 2:38pm


Great read - thanks Whitney! The older I get and the more of myself I reveal, the more I learn about bullying and intolerance and quite honestly, it'd just sad that some people feel the need to label others just because we're not all clones.

Go Katie and go HPA and go TWLOHA! I firmly and loudly believe that all of us are special and deserving of love, acceptance and being appreciated. Thank God we're *not* all alike because it's the variety that makes everyday life a little less ordinary, if we only have the courage to seek it out!

Love all, Serve all!
Aerin

2 | Left by Aerin | Dec. 9, 2010 at 2:47pm


JOHN GREEN FTW!

3 | Left by Anna | Dec. 9, 2010 at 3:59pm


I know what you mean! I thought being singled out for being different would be a relic of my past. I was so wrong! I'm 32, married and have chosen not to have children and it's like, "Bring out the big guns and beat her back in line!" It's worse now than ever, so much so that I'm feeling nostalgic for those horrific days that were middle school. Why must people attack others for daring to be who God created them to be?

By the way, I, too, was a Boxcar Children junkie! I'd forgotten all about my old friends. Thank you for the reminder!

4 | Left by Jennifer | Dec. 13, 2010 at 11:50am


I wish I could get my friend to read this. She is so scared of being herself, scared that others won't like her. It makes me sad because she's changed so much. Underneath the masks, she is a hilarious, beautiful person, but her parents have taught her to always wear the face of the people around her, I doubt if she even remembers how to be herself. I don't even know how to help her anymore. Everything I say seems to get us nowhere.

5 | Left by Kayla | Dec. 15, 2010 at 10:21pm

Name:

Email:

URL:

Comment: *   No HTML, http:// will auto-link
* required

Please type in the security code you see below.

  

Comment Guidelines

Flickr

Youtube